 So I am learning of this feminine flow that we have heard of so long. Ideas take time to form and to emanate. It is so funny I am in the water business for I always felt on the physical level, when I got that we were 75% water, a light bulb went off. We are more like jelly fish with fascia holding us together. Emotions lie in the fascia which seems like a gel like water state that kind of holds our body together like a glue.
When you consider this more deeply, Dr. Emoto's studies shows that water crystalizes shapes by the emotions put toward it....... Really see that and consider it. So inside our body, this same gel crystal thing is happening in suspended substance of this gel, water, fascia combo holding our body together with the muscles and bones. So if I have pure water I drink, cook and shower in, then my water inside will have less mess to clear out. It will be easier for my body to do its functions which really is just digestion or chemical reactions to produce energy. If there is toxins inside our water, our body has to do something with those as it uses water as the communicator, transformer, carrier, toxin clearer and nourisher all at once. So I get the plain physical benefit of clean water and health of ourselves is clearly affected by the quality of water we input. I also get that when the water is in charged small units with available hydrogen, #1 antioxidant, it will pull out free radicals . Free radicals are seeking a free -1 electron that hydrogen water flows into you. That is why I use an ionizer for health. The water structure is easier for the body. In nature water is found this way, like a hydrogen mist at the bottom of water falls or the spray of the ocean. The healing waters like Lourdes and any where that water is literally flowing across the rocks or smashing down, it is like lightening or electricity that breaks the water bonds to create the healing hydrogen electron mist. That is how I easily understand why clean water is important for us in our homes and why hydrogen water is so healthy for our body in this toxic world. Take it another layer for the ionizer gives you the safest sanitizer germ killer there is, Hypochlorous Acid, electric salt water. Consider tears, they too are like electric (charged from emotion) salt water. How did us ladies not know this was 100X more effective than bleach? We are buying all these toxic scented substances to clean around our water body and we have another option. Once you get the toxins out of your home, consciously, cleaners, personal care products filled with endocrine disruptors, your body actually comes online differently. It can feel and regulate hormones better. It is being flushed of food toxins easier and can run in greater health without all the toxins everywhere. It made sense to my health understanding. This understanding is why I am sharing water system. Quality water first, then hydrogen water to detox with each sip. We all are moving toward the house detox already with less chemicals or less danger. But water is no danger to our system. In fact our body uses that state of water at different points of our system already to kill or digest or fever up. Now we get to the part I wanted to really share. For being on this journey of water health, selling the machines, living cleaner, not so many hormone disruptors and if they come in, my body is nourished most easily by quality water. Back to Dr. Emoto. On the emotional level, we can see how fear and emotions are in the gel or crystal water phase in our body. So when they say we hold emotions or that our body holds trauma in its cells, you can see them as stuck in the fascia water web in your body. You can get that water holds things in place, it offers a field of communication through the body and electricity runs through all this giving messages. Hard areas or stagnant cut off flows will create messes, pockets disconnected, no flow. Illness starts to build in here. Our body gets hard, less supple. Then we are dehydrated and it becomes more sticky and less fluid. Make sense? Again consider tears and crying. You actually release charges through the salt water of emotions. These cleanse us like hypochlorous acid. They are our natural purifiers. Gosh how often do we hold in those tears and they can't cleanse out the emotions. Pretty wild. At that level of understanding, WOW, water is pretty important part of us. We haven't even gotten to the mind level or how the brain is 73% water! We can understand the way water operates in our body as it operates outside the body. Thus why they call it flowing. Things move in waves, in circles out, in spirals, not linearly, like the ocean flowing, ebbing, pulsing. We think things move in lines but water shows us that is not true. On a planet of over 75% water in a body of over 75% water, it tells us more how we move and operate. It is how we embrace that emotional nature not as a problem but as a way to operate in the world. Waves come. Energy flows all around. You sense them, You coil ,you expand, it is a wave, watery filled really and we are bracing at it so flow is really just a concept. Can see how illness can fester as pain, as stagnation in the body? See when we brace, flow is not possible. If you can get lower in your body, from your pelvic bowl as your center of gravity, you can then begin to feel this flow. In the mind you are disconnected from it for it is in the body. You literally have to be fully in the body grounded down so you can fully understand how the wave flows. It can't be done in the head which is what we all have been doing a while. When you are anchored in your pelvic bowl, you can suddenly feel flow of the world. energy, water all of this. I am just feeling, sensing, fully understanding this and water is the teacher, how it moves. Try it. Feminine flow is like water. Water is like riding something. It is already moving. So there is less effort when you work with the mechanics of it. You must be down in the body and that is what I always missed. So water is just so important to us as beings on earth. This is where I am in my study of the elixir par excellent. It is really a state we are just becoming aware of and the world moves in such a different way. It is not the angles of mind like triangles. It is the triangles all building a helix together, a vortex, a fibonacci sequence, it is non linear. It is geometry connected in a chain of movement. Maybe I am getting too deep but I want to energetically convey this flow, this water, this movement, this knowing to come back on line inside you. Water nourishes purifies, flows, cleanses, clears, connects, In this 5 year study of water and using the best options, it has really effected me and I feel now I am getting more fluid in my physical nature because I am using it not only physically but as flow, feminine flow. It is slower. Water is slower than mind and thought. Of course the embodiment of the divine feminine coming on line too so it is all connected. They say the emotions are like water and I think again of the fascia stuck and memories locked and water, which is awareness and communication, it all seems really important to health and beauty. Think of it. Communication when it is good, flows like water. It is a dance of sound, energy, back and forth, that is how flow works, fluid and like water. Do you feel what I am saying? Feeling the key word ,for you can only really feel when you're in your pelvic body fully, .....anchored. Honestly, this is the most profound health and wellness, vitality and beauty tip I have. Quality water! It is simple but all these changes come into the body. Naturally, easily, clear and purifying. It is the foundation of this next phase of humanity being in the body, balancing the feminine flow with the production . A fluid dance. Very fascinating and beautifying. Reorganizes how you think of water?! Flowing forward.
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 It was over 13 years ago that the feminine way of being came across my radar. I had a Vibrant Living Festival at my farm and those whom ran it asked me to have their teachers come and do retreats. It sounded fun and little did I know it would put me on a long journey to understand feminine flow. I heard the words. I wrote a book. I taught woman's circles. I hosted retreats at the farm for others and then ran many of my own. It is funny for now I am learning a deeper layer of it.
It was not me or my slow understanding, it is the structure of our world for us woman to follow masculine principles. We can hear the feminine way but something just doesn't register for all the world is in production and the safety seems to come from that. We are all mostly in survival on some level. Wanting to prove, perform, devote and serve. Even the words can only register in our minds for we have disconnected so long from our body and our sensing. Our openness to see what is alive in the field rather than what our mind wants us to create. It is kind of subtle yet not really grounded. No one showed us the gifts of femininity. There are not many models and we certainly aren't trained to use these wise gifts. They say it is the rise of the divine feminine and I have heard it for years. I have heralded it and desired it and yet I still am learning for it is a presence in the body, an embodiment that we are all now moving into. It sounds so lovely when you hear the words, receptive, nourishing, creative, open, sensing. intuition. It resonates in our heart but we do not really know what it means for it is not a mental behavior, it is an embodiment. Where our body leads us and we are just not taught this or sure what that means. We are under such pressure to live as men do and in a world that is built on production and doing not sensing what is next. Production is part of the feminine but it is done differently. So here I am 14 years in and yet another aha moment comes. The basis of this feminine flow is an actual inward safety. Without this safety inside, a knowing that all is well and a sovereign sense that the world is working with you and you are safe, you can't embody it. I know this so well as I have lived in that inward survival that I was not safe without doing, serving, adding into, producing. I have come at the world in an inward panic truly that will only bring about the things I am concerned about. Basic survival really and so many woman live in this. How could we not be? Men may too but I am a woman and can only share from that lens of experience. If we are not taught or experienced that the world is working with us and for us, how could we feel safe. We must do or we will not survive. It sounds practical and correct. Yet that is not really what feminine flow is about. I can only flow in this way if I have an inward knowing that I am safe not matter what. We all have been trained in this unsafety and indeed it is in our cells. We haven't been safe in many ways so it activates our masculine energy to prove, do, achieve so we can feel safe. It is an outward way that may work for men but it won't for woman. Perhaps I had to lose all my roles to really see this in a way of trust in embodiment. My whole life I lived in a bit of anxiety, panic, worry for survival on a very hidden level. Performing, offering to have value, melding into what was necessary to have peace and survive on some level. What a scary way to live but I have done it most fully. In losing all my roles slowly, from divorce, from jobs ending. from ending my mother guidance role, from leaving the community I grew up in, from moving to a new place where I don't really know where I am, I am seeing the connection to my body and sensing. No longer able to live in a survival world where it will kill us and our body, I finally see how it all works. Funny and ironic. The journey to feminine flow truly. Blessed with so much wisdom of so many systems and the wonder of age and experience I can see how I am done all the opposite things that wind my body into tension and even glaucoma! Wow! What a revelation that I am creating my own form of stress and chaos and non survival by my own beliefs and doing of misunderstanding how it all works here. I know I am not alone in this for we all were trained this way. We are all seeing that the world is not as we were taught. All the things we trusted, all the processes we did, all the systems we thought were designed to support us are not real. They are not here for us, they are set up for the few to thrive and the many to not. As I go through this revelation, I see we are going from the perspective of the outside gets us safety, goods, objects that will let us relax. But it doesn't really. Those with tons are in the worry to lose it as those without wonder if they will ever get it. Moving to a world where we create these things inside and then the outer changes. That is why the divine feminine is rising. This pole of aliveness has a knowing of her creation, her connection, her support of the world, her precision and sensing knows how to work in this world. It is a remembering. It is the inside out approach that we all talk about but don't quite know how to do. No one has shown us or been doing it. So of course this is a new way of creation yet it is the way the whole world creates at least nature. I write for myself when I want to really know I got a principle, learning, revelation. It is my way to reflect through words what I know within. So that is what this is. Finally, I am understanding this feminine flow as a total opposite to how I lived. It is within me now, as a visceral feeling and it requires a full trust in the world. That the world, all creatures, all things, all happenings are working for my becoming. A feeling that I am safe just how I am and I receive just because I am here. Not for performance, action, or doing. It is like I am the flower that receives the sun because I do. It doesn't need to do anything and the sun doesn't say oh I won't give you light if you don't do this. Only these flowers get sunlight and not you. All things receive the sun and the nutrients from the ground just because they exist. All life supports you because you are alive. Not because you did something. This is a huge shift in grounding and feeling safe and supported inwardly beyond anything I ever felt. The words might sound like something you heard but I now embody and remember this inside me fully. It lets out an exhale. An exhaustion. An expectation. A smile. I can relax fully and let things unwind. It is new to me and so many others for this is what our time is about. It is coming from the space of safety, of I am here so I am supported by all or the sun if that makes it simpler. As I sit in this new found flow, I realize my system, my body, my layers are so taunt from all the years of proving. This is all a subtle, nuance of really knowing your body, mind, emotions and spirit that I am talking about. It is not really conscious, it is in the deeper parts that motivate us to move. Moving to participate, to produce, to survive, to serve or to be liked, to be this or that. The feminine flow comes from something deeper that is more a watching, an observation of things, an intuition, a body signal to move that feels light and curious not a mind produced idea. It is such a profound shift that I am still in the uncoil of all the years of coil. It is like a reversal in how I lived. Insane really. To start with I am safe all the way through my whole being and then in that safety, true safety, what wants to form? It is not loud or action like we've known. It is slower, like a rhythm and trust and it is not all action all the time. It is a more flow. We have to give ourselves permission to listen, which means more stillness and slower pace. We listen more. We receive ideas and intuitions. We nourish ourselves first so we feel open, safe, managed and full. These are true energetics not just a massage once a month. A way of living from presence. Allowing the world to meet us halfway, to show us the next steps and to observe and then move or listen and then move. So opposite us pushing our way to what we want. I imagine that is why it has taken me so long to get to this visceral safety. It is a surrendering to the flow of life and jumping into it as part, not a separate entity trying to get what it needs by pushing, proving, producing as if I don't I will not make it. Such a scary underneath motive that so many of us live by and don't even know it. Crazy stuff really. Gladly, we are shifting from identity to essence and presence. From mission to resonance. Service to coherence. Doing to sensing. Clarity to listening. Effort to flow. Holding others to holding ourselves. Roles to being. Striving to emanating. Completely different than how I have ridden in the world. But to me as a woman, those words, the feelings they conjure, the field I sense is so nourishing. That is what I am remembering. This is how the world works, not how I was taught. Maybe you catch some of this, maybe not. It is just my ramblings as I learn the Art of Being a Woman as my book was all about this. I caught it then in a way that worked in the structure of a family and in the role as wife and mother. Now, without roles, it is the same thing but deeper inside I embody it. It is that time. The time to honor that we are in a body so precious, that is gets to experience this place as our spirit sinks in further and will create from the inward center not the mind conceived ideas only. Reading the field, feeling the field, knowing we are one in the same with it, not separate or cut off. It is a delicious time. I am thankful for this learning as It is unwinding years of stress tightness, constriction and misunderstanding of how to flow. I am enthused for this next leg more than ever. Knowing I get to flow, I get to pace my own rhythm, I get to see what the world offers me when I trust I am working with the field in collaboration not direction alone. I imagine I will anti-age pretty fast and with water as my guide of this feminine flow, I couldn't be in a better position. To share my ideas, maybe but to share clean, crisp, water of resonance, purification, nourishment, flow, that is sharing what I am learning. Life is fun and magic that way. I am exactly where I belong. The blessings already are!  Congratulations to my lovely daughter for she was married this weekend!!! Exciting but I was not there or anyone for she got married in England. Short notice and a tricky world. It is heartbreaking not to have been there but our children do what they do. And they are allowed to be who it is they came to be. I just never imagined it would entail this distance and diversity. She was beautiful and looked happy. There is joy in my heart for her heart. In summer she will come and celebrate with family. I lost my role quite quickly as a mom guide to witness. Many go through this with their children and it is my turn.
So I am lost in space in many ways. I lost the close role with my daughter which I admit was a big part of my last 5 years of life. A podcast, our water business, our closeness, it is all shifted hugely. I can move on and indeed have to a new home in a new state. I am still in the reorder phase. It feels like eons but it is only my mind making it dramatic. I have wonderful things ahead and fun things becoming. For today, I feel lost . I feel like all roles have dropped. I think it is good, for we are an essence not our roles. We are educated we are those things so when they shift or change we get thrown. It is part of the process. We adapt, adjust and expand into new expressions. There is an in between. I am there. Much of the world is. The old world almost complete and gone, the new unformed. It is a big space as the empty canvas. It is the gestation that we go through on many levels through life, just never had one this big. I allow the lost in space feeling. It is where creation comes from. It still feels aimless and dark. I am releasing the low emotions inside. Giving them the cleansing moment to pass through. We must go through our emotions or we get ill. It is energy and we have stuffed so much down. There is good healing when you really feel them as the waves of energy they are and not get too caught up in the story of it. Things change. Things don't work out. Things are not what we want often yet life still has beauty, joy and love. Floating. floating, floating. The caldron of creation. I think the whole world is in this. It is a wonderful space. It just doesn't feel like it when you are in it. We want to move, produce, achieve, create. There are times in all ideas where you are in the void. The beginning. It is full of possibility. It is completely unformed. That really scares us or at least me. What really bubbles up and inspires me to move? Not what should I do or how should I create, it is now what opens me? What widens me? What wants to express now? It is also winter and the cycle of the year is perfect for the inward hang. Hanging in the creative openness with all possibility. Sometimes there seems to be too many ideas that I am overwhelmed or there is sadness and stillness. Really it is to get cleanly in the stillness. The zero point. Settle in there and listen. Then it bubbles up in its own time and how still you are. Patience and quiet. Something that weirds us out. But where creation and expression begins. From inward out. It is not the outside fills us as we thought. It is the inside decides and then it flows out and creation happens. Very wild space and yet so many in this very spot just with different circumstances. New ways are calling and old roles no longer supporting them. I feel the true feminine space of creation. A place where my roles don't exist or define me. I am not acting on devotion, service and duty. I am not really acting on anything but being me. Very different for woman as we are roles and many of them service and it feels good to us but it is not the true essence of us often. We go deeper to the expression of just us. Not our service. The deep void of creation bubbles up. Very interesting space. Age, experience, world changes, such an unexpected spot. The rebirth of ourselves after years of tending and nurturing. I write this for all others that may feel this space. It is not really lost but it feels like it. We have so many things shifting, energies of the sun flares, astrology that hasn't existed in hundreds of years and the age of aquarius as we all have heard is truly a shift bigger than our minds can understand. It is right and purposeful but it feels very odd. My inner knowing sees this as the void before the reforming. Things are cyclical and always changing. If you are here with me, know you are not alone. It is a good thing really we just like certainty and there really is none and may never have been but we thought there was. Exhale. Sit in the quiet. Allow the unwinding of old. Rest. Unlayer your mind and stories. Let is all go in a surrender that what was is not anymore. It is ok. New forms come in all the time and when we rest enough in this space, we will be reanimated by our very own essence into the perfect next step. Our world has not honored this void of creation and now it must. Old systems and structures on a personal and global level are falling down. It is quite unsettling. But we are here for a reason and our spirit of self has a purposeful space here in the collective. Allow that spark or voice a moment to speak and it will show you the next pieces. I know I have the outline to this next chapter. Let the details form not from forcing as we normally do but from them coming to you. I find I am learning yet deeper that all life supports us. We are not separate beings forging our way through by ourselves as we were trained. Pick a goal and push to it. Yes there was a time for that but it is ending. It is more like center in yourself and watch what is unfolding. Then jump in where it feels good, easy and fun. Like participating in a play versus being your own character all alone. The energy of life is filling us in a new way. We are becoming aware of the field of life we are part of not separate. It is sensual in a way I never felt. I am connected differently and energetically. We are coming into a new way that is not yet here but we feel the shift. It is a more collaborative view and energy that says you just need to watch and do your part. You are not carrying it all. You never were. You can relax, observe and watch how life meets you. It is a cocreation. it is not an individual build. We are finding this connected energy in a new way and learning how to work with it for it is the life energy we are. We just were cut off somehow or unknown to the connection of the field. Now we are learning and we will find our way in a much more grounded, less stressful way to create. I feel it. Exhale, observe, recharge, and then jump in where it feels good. Not hard, not pushing not forcing but join in the field. It is here and I too am learning it. I do know we are exactly where we are to be. So ride the flow. Wait for it as we often say. It is cocreation on a level we never did before. Blessings to us as we hang in this void for a moment! |
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