The world is really in a mish mosh right now yet I find there is a greater openness to self expression. All the foundational do's and don't's are being questioned. Outrageous behavior all around us and up for discernment. In all this, there is a greater openness to express ourselves in ways individual! The rules are somewhat gone!
As we have this climate of anything goes, it feels to me more acceptable to be an individual in your own right. The clique mentality or lets be the same seems to be dropping out. I feel safer to express my uniqueness, there is no defined right or normal way. This time is supporting me in loving the true authentic me. We can all take this opportunity to give up our supposed to's!
No one lives these weird rules we have anyway. As we see people act happy and yet suddenly they get divorced. People are pretending to thrive in the "right" way and the reality is they are not rules on how to be happy. If they worked, we would be working them. As that "illusion" gets cleared, we will find people being more authentic and not pretending to be ok when they are not, reaching toward self fulfillment instead of staying in negative situations.
Part of the joy of this breakdown of the "family", marriage, societial view of the "right" way, is that we get to be who we are in our originality. Using our voices, learning of what works for us not what should work. Of course, we love being the truth of ourselves and how can't that make us really love ourselves. We were made unique and individual. We love when we can be our truth, it feels easy, good and relaxing. I am all for this love of self.
If we don't truly love ourselves, how can we love others with all their weirdness? We all have cool and not so cool traits. To embrace all of ourselves is to be ok with others. There is such a power in loving yourself, truly loving yourself. Not arrogance, for that is a trait of one who doesn't vibrationally embrace themselves. They can be know it alls, or bullies. Saying they love themselves when they are busy making others stupid so they can feel right or smart is not love of self. It is one busy hiding their weakness. Humble is a trait of one who loves themselves. They are not seeking outside recognition to be ok.
I am really feeling the love, adoration and honor for myself. I realize if I love me then I am not needing others too so I am not acting in ways that aren't me to be liked. I also realize that in loving myself, others who love me will show up for they are a match to my inside. The laws demand that. So It is a very cool practice to really find ways to love yourself fully,
We have a bad wrap on being "selfish" as well. Yes, to be greedy, taking advantage of others, out for just ourselves won't reap you the full benefit of a good life. Being selfish though, as in taking care of yourself first so you can better serve others is an important source of energy. You won't need others to care for you. You also are not looking for others to care for you either so you come to the table with your needs met and open to offer your fullness to others fullness. Our ideas about selfish, create a lot of issues on neediness and others making choices not in strength but in need.
This spring as the earth is warming and the sun shining, I am falling more in love with me! It is a delicious feeling and no doubt an outcrop of the training I have had as an initiate, minister and the feminine arts. We unfold truly in life. Like a flower with many seasons and selves. This season I am loving the awakening to bloom. I inspire other woman to do this and accept where they are and the beauty that is there. Beautiful new energies are flooding the earth with all this havoc and we can take the moment as the rules scatter to create our own and be ourselves.
Delicious spring awakening indeed! Blessings to your journey of wholeness!
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