We all know that if you give a man and a woman the same task, they will do it differently. They will both get the same end result but the processing of how will be different. Unfortunately, the feminine way has been dropped by many woman in business and in life for the way of men. Business is the man's world traditionally and their natural ways run it so we have adapted ourselves to it. This works but not as efficiently and easy for woman for they have a different way of doing things.
I have spent 9 years sharing this shift with woman and men as a basic understanding of ourselves. For woman, it creates more flow, health, beauty and changes the ease and grace they operate. To use their innate way, a way that is natural for us, shift our perspective, which means giving permission to be ourselves and open a well of energy we have awaiting us. The issue is that we, as woman, haven't cultivated, honored or used our unique way we approach life. We have adapted ourselves to man's way and we are just not as productive and healthy using their perspective.
What does this mean?
We are effected on all levels to a different experience of the world when we use our way of woman. This includes using our flowing nature, our adaptability and our natural slower pace. We still get as much if not more done when we come from this creative, flowing way. Efficiency is a man's way, speed and direct. Woman manage things just as quickly but it flows differently with a grace that appears slower. It is flow rather than production. Creative rather than mental. They say if you want a project done, give it to a woman! Not only that but she makes it look easy.
Woman have a strong sensing and intuition that guides them magically. We sense and move more from this empathic place, have knowings and can use this naturally. It is not a mind process but an intuitive one. We have incredible connections to our environments, others, the energy or flavor of things and can know how to move situations. We are natural communicators which takes more time yet when things are clear the action steps go more smoothly.
We can negotiate peace, collaboration and co-operation with finesse. Taking extremes, opposing views and blending them to a greater solution is just our way. We listen intently with our ears and sensing so we can understand others perspectives and find the common ground. We are more friendly, forgiving, less hierarchical, and understand give and take through a longer term relationship over this for that thinking.
We have a community mindset and larger world picture where all elements have their order and place. We are not so ours and yours, we create win/win by the nature of being a woman. Collaboration over competition. We like to gather others, create peace, have more fun doing most all tasks. We are heart centered over head centered. We connect the head heart naturally.
These are just a few of the many magnificent traits woman have naturally. They need to be rebalanced in all areas of our lives. The work place will benefit most but we even need to express these in our homes more, our neighborhoods, our community at large. We run most things that have a "group" mentality and we have been overusing the more masculine traits in all things. We have lost this natural connection to ourselves from our experience in the business world which is far more dog eat dog than the innate way of woman. In this collaborative Aquarian Age, our feminine way is needed for it will evolve the world quicker. This way is easy for us.
I invite you to really savor these traits in woman. We are opposite in tantra and perfectly so that a greater world can be with the whole of all traits used synchronistically. Too much production and no nourishment of the things produced has way too much senseless creation of things. Woman are naturally the tenders of spaces and we don't need more space, we need our spaces to be safe, nourishing and well run.
Woman are seeking change, settling and purpose using the mental, masculine practices that just won't work. We only get so far for we have the emotional, creative, intuitive nature that moves us not the mind. We aren't the powered up, no pain no gain part of the species. We are the heart inspired helpers. We need to use all our sensing and mind combined. We have incredible movement through passion and compassion different than logic and reasoning. It just is the way of woman. As we connect to this in ourselves, connect to it in each other as a sisterhood and collaborate ourselves to empower and support this way of being, the world will follow suit. For we truly run it underneath. We are the infa-structure to all that is going on. The silent workers holding it all together.
This feminine way will support all the world gracefully, naturally, in sync as we will flourish in our rightful power position in the new world! Our health and beauty will juice up too!
PS. I am doing a class in June on the 7 Petals of the Creative Chakra so we can remember these innate gifts and be sure to cultivate them in our everyday life for health and wellbeing! Grace and ease is the woman's way.
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|Lyn Ann Hicks
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