Are You an Empty Nester?

Are you in that phase in life that is all about you? No kids in the house? Looking for that next epic you are creating? A bit lost and not sure of the new you with out that serving? Wondering who you are now and what is your purpose? I have been here and I guess am still determining that next epic myself so I thought I would share some thoughts to support your journey!

It is a journey this becoming anew. That is a first thing to remember. In the feminine mysteries the last phase or wise woman phase was part of our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health. I learned that the energy moves from our womb, the immediate family and close circle up through the chakras to land at our pineal gland. This process and change many get lost in, was described as beautiful journey of being a woman. As the energy passed through the various chakras, we get to review where we had power and where we lost it in our lives as woman, mothers, care givers and how in our transition,  we garner that wisdom to share with the larger world.

It is a process and you go through your chakras like a review and rebirth. So it can get deep but it is intentional and healthful. So as you go through this empty nest, know this is the process to your new life. It is actually a great process of rebirth and part of our womanhood. It is a delightful time if you look at it that way so that should start you in the right mind set as you go through this fun rebirth.

Be gentle and allow the evolving to unfold. Going through this process is your chance to let go of regrets or getting lost in your loss. It is a great time to review as you go through and determine who and what you deserve now. It is actually, although could have health challenges and confusion,  part of womanhood and a good thing. You have time to know yourself again and be you with out all the overwhelming service. It is actually this great transition that we can become greater expressions of us again. Your perspective and knowing what this is will support your health and the creative piece of life you are in. 

Knowing this is the fun and enthusiasm of this time in our life. I have been going through this and in such joy. Not all of it has been easy or joyful but it has supported me in the new epic and version of myself. I am enjoying as I learn of who I am and how to serve in a larger way. I find this a good process and using it to transform into a greater me. Flow through your emotions as they are clearing and indicating to you pieces to rework and let go so you can unfold further.

We have stuffed so many emotions over the years and I consider this a release of them that can really empty you and uncover what is next. We don't need to be tied to this anymore in our wise state and can review past these memories and emotions some good to savor, some to be done with. Allow it to be open, dark, unformed, as you sift through the unfelt and let it go for good. Lighter you can create more clearly and in aligned with all you learned. 

This is a call to mother ourselves rather than others. To find that you that was lost in all the changes, raising beings, doing things to fit in and the right stuff to have a great family life for all. Now it is about you and we get lost when we don't care for others after so long. Many go to animals or get involved in other ways to care for others but don't miss the call to mother and serve yourself. Even if you don't know what that means. This is your time, a time in womanhood and I guess manhood, where we design the life that supports that you that was pushed aside.

It was wonderful being the nourisher of our family and now it is time to nourish ourselves so this last epic, is a life we love. YOU EARNED IT! As the wise woman, we will add to the world in small and big ways with our reach and wisdom. How will I share all that I learned? Doing something purposeful for the larger world and enjoying it the role of the Wise Woman. Our lives have been a creation of choices so now we are able to chose just for ourselves which is freeing and an open canvas.

What will reward our hearts and use all our wisdom to feel good and love life? That can be anything. For me, health and beauty are my calls and what I share. I found this water opportunity that fills my boxes for that last epic. I know I can educate on something so simple that we all need and should know quality water. It sings my heart to be part of something simple and profound at once. And about the most basic elixir of life! Take the time to find your true, wise woman message. 

 What will sing your heart? You have the time now, the growth of a life and the call to enjoy what you learned,. Put  them in practice and help yourself be the best you as you did your children. Now you step up to the next level, show your children life goes on and you use what you learned to be part of the world. It doesn't have to be this big thing, just a thing that supports you, has inspiring community and you feel great for doing it. I find this so exciting. Scary at times. Emotional and cleansing. Opening to the Lyn Ann that never existed or has been waiting to express! I take the time to find her and whatever that process is. 

It is the ultimate creative time and  just the normal process of being a woman. It is what we do, how our life stages, normal and ok. It is not a bad time. Yes loss is there but in that opening, you can find you again in new form. You are birthing yourself anew. You are a master, you raised children so now you do it to yourself.  It is a grand leap in growth so allow this shift as you shifted to marriage or parenting. It didn't happen in a day or month. It was a process you learned day in day out. The project is you! You birthing yourself!

Enjoy this empty nesters. I have been in it 10 years and it has been so rewarding finding me. Love that you are the project! You deserve it! You can fill yourself with all the things you think you missed and mother yourself to thrive in a new way as a woman caring and loving herself fully. It is the years of self care and love only to find the pieces that you want to nourish the world with through the journey of nourishing you. I love it.

Others have educated us that it is not an easy time yet if you look at it right, it is a wonderful and purposeful time that is part of us. Life wasn't easy alot of the time as we expanded and grew in our new roles. This time is no different but the freedom that is found in this process and rebirth is as it is supposed to be. Woman have done this for thousands of years and it is just part of our process as the femininity of the world. We get a chance again to remake ourselves now that we are wise and knowing. I have delighted in the journey even when it got confusing and muddy!

Connect if you need support or a flowing in grace chat to remind you of the wonder we are in. IF you want to have a mission like I, sharing health and sustainability, supporting homes and families, let us chat. I love my last big message to the world. It is simple, has community, is fun, is life transforming and wonderful way to support the world on part time ways that allow time to care for all my needs. It is a great project to be part of as you become this new you. My goal is to create  Woman of Wealth sharing Health! Finding others in this opportunity or others that want to spend money to support the youngers in their path to share health. How fun is that??? Want to join?

Blessings to us all as we add the gift of our wise selves to the world!!

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